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Dear Therapist,. Please bear with me as I try to give some context for what is going to sound very unpleasant. I am a reasonably attractive woman in her early 30s. I have a long-term, doting partner and we are extremely happy in our relationship.

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‘I Feel Bad Because My Friends Aren’t Attractive!’

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Right before we left, my friend pulled out one of the many copies of her receipt. This is a normal occurrence for her.

But for me, it is a stab in the heart. She is beautiful. There is no denying that. Growing up, she would always compliment me and say I was beautiful, but I was never fooled. I am the grenade a wingman jumps on for his friend. I am the epitome of the third wheel.

My friend has jumped from relationship to relationship since high school. But me? If you could be paid to be single I would be rich. I was always the fat friend. The loud, annoying friend. The bossy friend. You know the type. I have a nice face and big boobs, which was enough to keep me from becoming a total outcast in my youth. I spent my life in the middle of the social ladder, dreaming of moving up and terrified of falling down.

I made new friends and let my guard down. I stopped caring about where I was on the ladder. My friend, however, she rose up from the bottom. She transformed from a nerdy girl with thick glasses into a tall, elegant creature over the course of one summer. She relished in the way guys stared at her. She enjoyed the attention and still does. Her looks saved her before she really had to live. People love her because she is beautiful. And because of that, her beauty is her self worth and it shows.

I am not beautiful or charming. But I have people who love me and I will never have to doubt that they love me for who I am. The people who talk to me do so because they find me interesting. The people who spend time with me do so because I am worth their time, not because I am beautiful. The world does not give me things on a silver platter. I have to work and fight for everything I get in this world, but when I get it I know I have earned it.

I may be the ugly friend, but the people who love me love me, not my appearance, and to me that makes all the difference. After giving it a bit of thought I decided it is sometimes good to be the ugly friend. It makes […]. Sign up for the Thought Catalog Weekly and get the best stories from the week to your inbox every Friday.

You may unsubscribe at any time. By subscribing, you agree to the terms of our Privacy Statement. I went out to lunch with an old high school friend the other day.

I can tell that she feels uncomfortable. I am the ugly friend. To me, that is terrifying. I would choose to be the ugly girl over being the pretty one any day of the week.

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I’m Always The Ugly Friend

When my friend suggested we all go out one night, I was amped for her to meet my amazing boyfriend. In the end, I wished I had canceled because it was a night I remembered for all the wrong reasons. OMG, is he flirting? Over dinner and drinks, my boyfriend kept giving my friend really creepy looks, like he was about to salivate all over her and her food. I started to feel really awkward because it was clear he found her attractive. This friend of mine is the hottest woman in our group. I felt invisible. He was showing so much interest in my friend and I think I caught a look of pity in her eyes when she looked at me at one point, which made me feel even worse! I felt inadequate. Yeah, it was enough to make me feel like a total freak.

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Once, when I was seventeen, I was held down by two of my male friends while they forced bread into my mouth. It was just the three of us in an unsupervised room in the school while the pair of them smashed a bloomer into my face. Both retreated and I only stayed a few more minutes before heading elsewhere. I was shaken up.

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Right before we left, my friend pulled out one of the many copies of her receipt. This is a normal occurrence for her. But for me, it is a stab in the heart.

Not by a long shot. The problem is: nobody wants me. I attempt flirting, but guys always go for my curvy friends. I can talk about Star Wars, roller coasters, whatever. But why do guys always go for my friends? Why am I always the one left completely alone?

5 Red Flags Your Crush Likes Your Best Friend Instead, According To Experts

I had a friend with whom I always seemed to find myself in competition over guys. It seemed to me like, in her opinion, the most attractive trait someone could possess was one of her friends being into them. If she sensed you had a crush on someone, she would immediately swoop in — and annoyingly, it often worked. Not knowing how to know if my crush likes my friend , I would stay in the fight, trying to win what was basically a lost cause. I wasted a lot of time and emotional energy this way, when really, had I just seen the signs and moved on, I would have been better off. Fortunately, you don't have to be like me! You don't have to feel powerless in this situation.

May 15, - Right before we left, my friend pulled out one of the many copies of her I joke that I should have refused to tip since he didn't hit on me too.

Skip navigation! This story was originally published on January 12, Hundreds of you took to the comments, pouring your hearts out about your own vulnerabilities and fears.

My friend always gets hit on and flirted with but I never do? We look alike too (see pics)?

No I'm a pretty nice person i wouldn't do that and I am less outgoing but how would they know if they haven't talked to either of us? They go off what they think you'll do. Thank you! But I don't know how you can tell if someone's outgoing before even approaching them.

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